What if…? With No Regrets

It’s 2.30am in the midnight. Just finish discussing things with my partner and now sitting facing a window enjoying the cool breeze..suddenly things which happened days before, weeks before, months before or even years before passed by my mind. Happy, unhappy, what i did right and what i did wrong, any regrets on the decisions which i made? was the decision i made is the right one? Many many things…and one statement or maybe one question which i believe each and everyone of u must have has it in ur mind before. What if…?

Yup, this question always rosed to me every now and then. What if…4 years ago i did not join my very first company G-smart? What if…i did not leave my first company and join my second employment company? What if…i did not join my current company and remain as a fulltime freelancer? What if..,i did not start a blog myself or even to bother to learn web related knowledge? What will i have become? What or where will i be or where will i be standing now?

Questions like these normally will make people feel unsure on whether the decisions they made were actually right or wrong and eventually will leads to only regrets and probably hatred of ownselves for the blame on making the wrong and terrible decision, in the end will cause a person to lose his confident, is passion and will prevent ownselves from giving any opinions, not to mention making decisions…

WRONG!! THIS IS ALL WRONG!!! This What if…? question or statement shouldn’t be use to bring negative ways. It’s true and unavoidable we humans will have these questions playable around our mind once in a while. But, we can see it from the other perspective. I believe which ever decision or which ever move that we made, surely there will be an experience that we can gain from which is profitable for our future..

Me for instant, What if 4 years ago i did not join my very first company? i wouldn’t have meet Daniel who gave me the opportunity to learn how to swiftly handle keyboard’s keys, also HongKiat who thought me a lot of stuffs and to made me who or what i am now.
What If i did not left G-smart and to Dragonbackmedia? i wouldn’t have met my current buddy comes partner to me, also i got the chance to get expose to the World of Warcraft (hahaha, should i be happy of it actually?:P )
What if i did not take up a few months of fulltime freelance? I will not be able to learn things which i don’t think i am able to gain anywhere in the company working environment…

See..decision or steps that u made, can be profitable to urself probably not for now but in the future, or u maybe can’t feel or realize the experience or the benefits u gain from it at the moment, but when time goes and pass…and when u look back, u will know and realize what u had gained. So friend…Decision are made to advance but not to regret 😉


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8 Comment(s) On This Topic

Gallivanter said during April 11th, 2009 at 6:51 pm

As Bon Jovi says, “WELCOME TO WHEREVER YOU ARE! This is your life, you made it this far!”

No regrets buddy – keep moving forward! 🙂

meikuan said during April 12th, 2009 at 11:52 am

eh eh, y never mentioned our names? regret knowing us issit o-0?

boon said during April 12th, 2009 at 4:37 pm

@Gallivanter : hahaha! PEACE!

@meikuan: u guys the name will be mention after i left the comp 😛

Eileen said during April 13th, 2009 at 11:36 am

That’s the only what if you have in mind? All work-related? Hahaha

aunty irene said during April 16th, 2009 at 3:12 pm

uncle boon.. you dating someone from dragonback ahh?? heheheh i also want to know!!!!

boon said during April 16th, 2009 at 3:16 pm

@Eileen: hahaha, wat else u wan me to think?:P

@aunty irene: hello aunty~~~ is there anybody else in dragonback which i can date????

aunty irene said during April 16th, 2009 at 3:43 pm

er….. i dunno wor…cannot be wb and me lah .. heheheh…. peony??

boon said during April 16th, 2009 at 4:05 pm

@aunty irene: hahahah, wont be peony also…so is none! dun think so much and dun treat ur son so bad already

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